You need to hire an attorney to get a divorce... for the same reason why a patient can’t operate on themselves. (see July Post for more)

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Shaquan Duley, Columbia SC Mom who Killed two sons

September 16, 2010       – If you missed “Oprah” this afternoon, Thursday (09/1610), the country’s leading daytime television show featured a story that was first covered on HLN’s groundbreaking, “Issues with Jane Velez-Mitchell” over two weeks ago on the Orangeburg, South Carolina mother, Shaquan Duley, accused of killing her two young sons.
      Her mother, Helen Duley, who spoke of the tragedy candidly to Oprah, brought the queen of talk to tears.  Mom Duley accentuated precisely what family law expert, DEBRA OPRI, voiced on “Issues with JVM” when the story first broke (which Velez-Mitchell brought to national consciousness).  According to Opri, the 29-year-old single mom who confessed to suffocating 2-year-old Devan Duley and 1-year-old Je'Van inside a hotel room at Orangeburg's Trumps Inn, then dumping them into the river, is textbook “massive depressive and obviously suffered a psychotic break.”
     A pathologist's report supported Duley's confession.
     Helen Duley vocalized to the television audience today that she knew her daughter was depressed but never thought she would take such drastic action. "She was highly upset, raging, acting like a crazy person," Helen Duley told Winfrey when discussing her daughter’s mindset in the hours leading up to the drowning.
     "The thought never came in my mind that she would do anything like this," Duley's sister Adriane told Oprah on Thursday. "I'm totally shocked. She must of snapped," "
     Adriane said Duley was in a manic state before the deaths and became irate after a fight over her inability to take care of her children.
     Opri’s legal assessment of the accused mother broadcast nationally nearly three weeks ago was validated today by Duley's attorney, Carl Grant, who appeared alongside the family on “Oprah.”  He relayed that mental health workers met with Duley hours after the incident and diagnosed her with severe major depressive disorder with psychotic tendencies. He emphasized this diagnosis shows “Duley didn't know right from wrong” at the time of the killing.
     Grant also said Duley tried to slit her wrists with a box cutter that same day, took 12 headache powders and tried to drown herself in the river.     Duley remains in jail after being denied bond on Monday, Sept. 13.  They are, as Opri predicated, presenting an insanity defense.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Opri talks to Financial Advisor about finances in a Marriage

How do you merge finances in a marriage if both spouses already have separate advisors?
Debra Opri, a family lawyer who practices in California, New York and New Jersey, likens a marriage to the merging of two companies, like Continental and United Airlines. Couples must determine who’s going to be the CEO, who’s going to be the CFO and who is going to be on staff. To that end, she believes it makes sense for each party to have separate advisors.
“You have a business: You go to work, you earn income, and you invest it. You’re a business entity. So how do business entities protect themselves?” she asks.
In her own marriage, Opri decided from the outset to use her own accountant and file her taxes separately because she wanted to protect her business.
“Frankly, I don’t want someone telling me what to do and how to run my business and my funds,” she says.
Opri says she’s represented a lot of successful women over the years who have felt the same. They feared that once they merged their finances with that of their husbands, their money—and the decisions surrounding it—would no longer be theirs.
“My advice is always, ‘Keep your accountant. Keep your lawyer. And let him keep his,’” she says, noting that Lucille Ball always had three sets of everything: one to look after her, one to look after him, and one to look after both of them.
“She basically said, ‘I have everybody watching everybody,’” Opri says

reprint from Financial Advisor August 2010 issue

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Las Vegas D.A. Hardliner Unlikely to Give Paris Hilton Special Treatment

Paris Hilton
(Sept. 1, 2010 – Los Angeles, CA) 

According to leading attorney DEBRA OPRI, Paris Hilton is about to discover what O.J. Simpson already knows – when it comes to justice, Las Vegas can be a lot tougher than Los Angeles.  Opri, the Los Angeles-based legal expert best known for high-profile cases from the Jackson family to James Brown and Anna Nicole Smith , she is certain (L.V.) District Attorney David Roger is highly unlikely to offer Paris a plea bargain deal that won’t include formal probation with mandatory community service which may involve (minimal)  jail time on her felony cocaine possession charge
Can you imagine Paris Hilton picking up garbage on the side of the road in Las Vegas? “I can,” says Opri.
(Note:  The veteran Clark County, Nevada prosecutor – David Roger – put Simpson behind bars on robbery charges after the former football great beat murder charges in Los Angeles.)
Hilton is facing a felony drug possession charge that possibly could carry a prison sentence of one to four years. The man who arrested Hilton, Lt. Dennis Flynn, said a small plastic "bindle" of the drug fell out of her purse when she reached for a tube of lip balm.
Hilton claimed the purse she was carrying, where the .8 grams of cocaine was found, did not belong to her.  She reportedly told a Las Vegas police lieutenant that she had borrowed the purse from a friend, but acknowledged owning money, credit cards and a broken tablet of the prescription drug Albuterol that was lso found in the bag.
Debra Opri
The Vegas bust was the third encounter in three months with law enforcement for Hilton. “You’d better believe that even though Hilton’s other infractions and as well as reported possession of illegal drugs – and her 2007 DUIs for which she went to Jail – were outside of Nevada jurisdiction, the presiding Judge will certainly take these earlier brushes with the law into serious consideration when Paris is in his court.  It's going to be extremely difficult for Paris to get out of these charges, even with the brilliant legal skills of her experienced criminal defense lawyer,” says OPRI.
Visit Debra Opri

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

“Issues with Jane Velez-Mitchell” with Debra Opri

Today’s National Headlines
Riveting Analysis
                                                                               with

Debra Opri
Celebrity Justice Expert
                                                              on
                           “Issues with Jane Velez-Mitchell”
4 p (PT) & 7 p (ET) on HLN
(live from CNN LA)

Friday, August 27, 2010

SHOWBIZ TONIGHT - Debra Opri on Lindsay & Tiger



Debra Opri discusses the terms of Lindsay's release from Rehab with the television audience on SHOWBIZ TONIGHT.  Lindsay Lohan will stay in Los Angeles until November 2010.

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Debra explains Tiger Woods Settlement to the SHOWBIZ TONIGHT AUDIENCE.
august 25, 2010

LINDSAY LOHAN Out of REHAB

August 25,2010 Lindsay Lohan out of Rehab. Debra Opri discusses the release from Rehab on FOX NEWS.

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Debra Opri has advice for FANTASIA and her family on SHOWBIZ TONIGHT on HLN

Debra Opri on SHOWBIZ TONIGHT giving advice to Fantasia
Debra Opri is the key Legal expert on SHOWBIZ TONIGHT and she gave her expert opinion on what FANTASIA should do.

Debra Opri discussion Fantasia's problems
Tune into HLN on SHOWBIZ TONIGHT to hear the advice Debra Opri has for FANTASIA.